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    As in the past so it remains today - we were and still are under the selfsame commitment to adhere to the directions of the Gedolei Yisrael, who stand guard against breaches of purity threatening our camp. When we were required to ask – we asked. When we were instructed to depart – we left. The moment we are summoned back to raise the flag, every other consideration is pushed to the side and we answer: We are ready!

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The "Aufruf" Ended with a Visit to the Hospital

The "aufruf" celebration ended with a visit to the hospital: The chasson's sister was hit on the head with a hard candy, and fainted on the spot.

Aharon Roth 02/12/2009 17:08
The sister of the chasson will not forget her brother's aufruf Shabbos for many years to come…Who is not familiar with the widespread aufruf custom – and in fact, the same custom is practiced whenever a bar mitzvah boy is called up to the Torah, or during the Sefardi "Shabbos Chatan" – of throwing individual candies or small bags of treats throughout the shul? For children, it is an especially enjoyable experience to scurry around the shul trying to collect as many of the sweets as possible. Then they compare who has the fattest pockets, full of candy and nuts…

But sometimes the custom can be dangerous, especially if too many candies are thrown too hard. Last Shabbos, a new chasson was called up to the Torah in Rovah Gimmel in Ashdod. When the gabbai called out the phrase, "Ya'amod ha'chasson…", candies began flying in all directions throughout the shul. One of them hit the chasson's sister squarely in the head, and she fainted on the spot. The girl needed medical attention, out of concern that shehad suffered a concussion. She was transported to the hospital, where she remained for several days for observation.

In the wake of that unfortunate incident, the public is asked to take extra caution when performing the custom of throwing candies. Or perhaps we should re-instate an older version of the same custom, which involved a few family members walking through the men's and women's sections of the shul, distributing sweets from a large platter or basket. Whether you catch it in the air, snatch it up off the floor, or politely help yourself from a plate, the candy will always taste sweet.
But more important than the candy are the members of the congregation – we want them all to stay in shul until the tefillah is over!